Hello Everyone? I would like some advice please consider?

Wow. You know marrying a woman older than yourself is usually a good idea. My wife is ten yrs older and we've had a wonderful marriage for over twenty yrs. Most of the time it works out well with older woman younger man. BUT this woman sounds like a nut. You need to get a legal separation. You can call a family law attorney and explain your situation and may get some gratis (free) services. However, you can actually download the forms for legal separation online. Go to legalzoom.com. But ultimately you will need an attorney because she will chew you up and spit you out. Main thing is make the split legal as soon as you can, so you can file for divorce as soon as you can. You should be able to get some marital support from her even though you are the husband. Regardless, you need a lawyer on your side. I would attempt tomorrow to call at least one attorney.